THE BACKWARD FEMININE

๐Ÿ‘„๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’„๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿฆฑ๐Ÿ‘ฉ๐Ÿง•๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿฆณ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐Ÿ”ฌ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€๐ŸŽค While Male bodied wounding most often craves (feels safest) to be mothered, most female-bodied wounding most often craves to be FATHERED. We generally desire to embody what we perceive to be lacking. Fear and Desire both arise out of […]

TRIGGERS: THE PATH TO INDIVIDUATION

๐Ÿ˜น๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿค–๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜–๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ค๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿฅต๐Ÿฅถ๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿคง๐Ÿค‘๐Ÿฅด People speak about Triggers as if they are problems. This is exactly the backward perspective in our culture. This perspective is based on shame. “This person is never triggered, so they’re cool. This person is triggered all the time, […]

UNCONSCIOUS ADDICTIONS: COPING MECHANISMS TO AVOID PASSION

๐Ÿง๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿฅณ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿคฏ๐Ÿคฌ๐Ÿค—๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ˜น๐Ÿ˜ฝ We’ve been taught some realย ๐Ÿ’ฉย about addiction. It’s not as black and white (or brown) as it’s been presented. Every unconscious addiction is based on unprocessed grief, which is also a lack of connection. There are also conscious addictions, which […]

THE BACKWARD MASCULINE

THEย BACKWARD MASCULINE ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿคฉ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿค˜๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ™๐Ÿง™โ€โ™‚๏ธ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ‘ฉโ€โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿ’‹โ€๐Ÿ‘ฉ Dear [Straight] Men, This message is for you. We have long been taught that women like masculine men. We have been taught that women want ‘polarity’, that this is sexy and will turn them on. This may […]